Bloggers: Strive for COMMUNITY!
I recall signing up for something I think was called Tribe that was supposed to bring bloggers together… guess it petered out!
I loved MyBlogLog for its community spirit – of course, yahoo pulled the plug on it…
Bloggers have to be careful to build a real COMMUNITY – and not a CLIQUE – I know of a few blogs where you see 30-50 comments on very post but on closer inspection, those comments are divided among 3 other bloggers and the host blogger… and way at the bottom the site counter says ‘you are the third visitor today” – and it’s an hour until midnight!
I did everything I could think of (but never succeeded) to try to build a blog like the one LaShawn Barber published in the mid-2000′s when she was mostly a “political blogger.” I envied her “comments” area, which was more like an interactive forum: 30 to 200 comments on each post – every one from a UNIQUE visitor!
Lastly, SOCIAL MEDIA is NOT the best way to build a blog community, although it is a useful tool. There are a lot of bloggers who shun social media – a lot of “A-list” bloggers whose digital friendship is far more valuable than a "follow" on twitter or a "friendship" on facebook!
The Blog "Contests" that measure a successful guest-post by "mentions on social media" are just plain WRONG! the system is way too easy to game!
Sushant from SmartBloggerz left a comment on my post that heavily criticzed blog contests.Snippets from comments via Famous Bloggers:::
Author: Thomas Frank
Social proof isn't useless, but it's not particularly useful either if you're not doing things that are actually interesting. If you've got 10,000 followers, but you're following 11,000 and do nothing but auto-post RSS feeds and ask people to buy your stuff, you're doing it wrong.
Author: Barry Wheeler
I laugh when I see people flocking to those automatic follower services. John Chow put one online and I thought ... hmmm ... time to try a little experiment. I created an "account" and proceeded to get like all kinds of people who would supposedly follow me if I followed them back. Sure it worked and as he put it ... I had a "positive social proof" but the whole service was crap! It was a way for John Chow to build his email list, that's it.
Author: Wong Chendong aka The Bad Blogger
Will both Seth Godin and Tim Ferriss is already famous, so getting so much follower is no big deal to them but believe me, with so much followers, how much actually are real followers, that's the real question, to me I always believe lesser the better, what I mean is having millions of follower doesn't mean you are good at getting followers. For example Frank Kern before he release his first Mass Control, his subscriber list was less then 10,000 and by using the 10,000 he release a product that hits the million in 24 hour, look this means more followers and subscriber means nothing because the real stuff are inside the real followers, though I agree we should not waste too much time in social media, but still social media is way we can connect to the outside world.
Tags: bad blogger, guest post, Guest Blogger, How to write a Guest post on a blog
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