Friday, August 26, 2011

A misunderstanding that got way out of hand...

I went from the frying pan into the fire of misunderstanding, fanned when yet another blogger "intervened" - I'm sure the fellow just thought he was helping Lainy out after I did a bad job of trying to explain my position on the "Big Daddy" disclosure! (BIG DADDY'S 'STATS' ON LAINY ARE STILL UP as of 0740 Friday August 26, 2011 - that's where the image/SCREENGRAB below comes from!) we started having a little war using words and blogposts as stones and arrows. Like silly little things often do, the situation got somewhat out of hand!...sometimes blogging has its moments of regret... in real life, it is possible to get into trouble, without meaning to...

As we go through life, we encounter bends in the road we travel involving interrelationships with other people. I've been on the bad side of a blogger I ran across via Entrecard. I'm not happy with the way things turned out, and I'll tell you what happened between a blogger named Lainy and me.

How I unknowlingly got on Lainy's bad side - simply by pointing out FACTS as interpreted by another blogger who writes under the hat "Big Daddy Richard" - if you check out the post that caused the conflict, scroll to the indented highlighted paragraph which begins "One problem encountered by the EC system..." and read through, clicking on the links as you go, you'll see I am NOT trying to insult Lainy or her blog... I'm interpreting the information and allusions made by "Big Daddy" - and the statement about "low-income women" which has come directly off alexa or a similar website! That 3rd party website was WRONG WRONG WRONG because Lainy's audience (I'm pretty positively sure) consists for younger, intelligent/educated women, most likely between 20 and 40.

Ever find yourself in one of those dilemmas? The more you try to explain what happened, the more you paint yourself into a corner?

Sorry for the misunderstanding, Lainy! Since man first stood upright until now, there are human tendencies that make us want to throw stones first and talk later ... but again, I feel the more I tried to explain what happened, the deeper I sunk into a hole of misunderstanding! Live and learn!

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