Self-appointed self-annointed GURUS try to convince bloggers that being able to create thought-provoking comments will drive visitors to your blogs, and of course they are happy to charge you for a little "inside info" --- well, I've gotcha covered with BETTER and CURRENT "inside info" that won't cost you a penny! (Or get you into trouble!)
The gurus are always OUT TO MAKE MONEY. That is their prime motivator. 99 out of 100 times the information you pay for is wrong or outfdated - it might have been effective six months or a year ago - an eternity in cybertime!
Comments are "notoriously cliquish" - you'll notice on blogs which list "top commenters' it's always the same 9 or 10 people, and if you visit their individual blogs: yup! The same 9 or 10 people. Outsiders rarely get comments approved, and when they do, they are subjected to ridicule or rude replies from the "inside band" of commenters (who, by the way, also bestow "best blogger" awards upon one another, which really have no merit or social value!)
For years, I have bent over backwards trying to engage readers of my blog here to comment. To twist an old saying: you can lead the blogger to the comments box, but you can't make him comment. At least I'm no Nick Denton: he wants to "erase this toxic Internet class system!" he has come up with an alternative, which resurrects the old internet name KINJA, which will position to become the new, alternative internet commenting system. (more on KINJA follows, if you know how to follow the links!)
I recently added FACEBOOK comments to my blog - it appears only on the actual URL of the individual unique article. I open a door so that if you happen to be a facebooker and you land on my blog, you can easily drop a comment when otherwise you would not bother. I believe this will prove effective in the long run. I have yet to see any major benefit, but fb is a major major major player on the net and the leader in social media 2012, ergo fb comments.
Back to our main issue here, this idea of using some sort of "Blueprint" for commenting:
The major internet players are running AWAY from comments!
"run your own analysis on your traffic and determine exactly how many people are scrolling down the page to read comments. Then figure out how much you’re spending to maintain comment communities that are civil, vibrant, and not an embarassment sitting just below your own work. I bet once you run all the numbers, you’d discover you’d be saving money simply by not having comments at all. (You’d probably save a bundle on therapy for authors alone.)" ~ ANIMAL
Hang on, bloggers! There is a better way:
Handling Negative Comments
Your blog is your home. You can do with it what you like.